Don't make any snap judgments, please. First, focus on your own recovery.
However, you will eventually have to decide if you can tolerate porn. What does it matter if your man warms himself up with porn for you if he loves you, is attentive to you, and shows you love the vast majority of the time?
You should be concerned if he starts to ignore you or spends more time getting high on porn than with you. My husband hardly ever goes all the way to watch porn. leakhive would much rather save it for me, but he has slowed down a bit as he has gotten older. So don't worry or worry too much if your man occasionally orgasms to it.
This will affect a man just as much as it affects us, and patience as well as an open heart would be the suggested medicine if he has been avoiding sex but has been anxious and stressed.
Additionally, and I use this term loosely, men enjoy variety.
Like my man, I also get "bored" easily, probably even more so. I enjoy adding flavour to things. My boyfriend and I both enjoy wearing stunning underwear, but, in all honesty, he prefers to watch me strip off.
I also enjoy using the webcam to record brief clips of me masturbating for him and leaving them on the computer for him to find. I will occasionally wait for him in bed or at the door just before he gets home from work, hot and ready for action.
Although he isn't into dressing up, I think it would be fun to try. He also doesn't enjoy pole dancing or lap dancing, though many men do. You should think about incorporating it into your sexual life.
If you feel awkward or shy touching yourself in front of him, start small.
Most men enjoy watching us touch ourselves. When you realise how much he enjoys it, you will eventually move past your initial disappointment. The aspects of you that you dislike won't be noticed by him. Please let all of that go because all he sees are the women he loves and finds attractive.
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